Sevgisizli\u011fin dayat\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131 bu co\u011frafyada ya\u015famak ger\u00e7ekten \u00e7ok zor… Sevgi s\u00f6zc\u00fcklerinin yerini alan ba\u011f\u0131r\u0131\u015flar, k\u00f6t\u00fc konu\u015fmalar, olumsuz davran\u0131\u015flar ba\u015f\u0131n\u0131 alm\u0131\u015f gidiyor. Ufac\u0131k bir sevgi k\u0131r\u0131nt\u0131s\u0131 umuduyla ya\u015f\u0131yor her evde bir \u00e7ocuk. Anne ve babas\u0131n\u0131n g\u00f6zlerinin i\u00e7ine bak\u0131yor her sabah o umuttan haber alabilmek i\u00e7in. Lakin evdeki ne\u015fe de\u011fil de pencereyi a\u00e7\u0131p bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131nda g\u00fcne\u015f \u0131s\u0131t\u0131yor i\u00e7ini. Ve b\u00fcy\u00fcyor o \u00e7ocuk. G\u00fcnden g\u00fcne sevginin bir damlas\u0131 dahi topra\u011f\u0131na damlamadan b\u00fcy\u00fcyor. O b\u00fcy\u00fcd\u00fck\u00e7e sanki evindeki sevgi de b\u00fcy\u00fcyor. Bir \u015fefkat bir ilgi g\u00f6r\u00fcyor \u00e7ok sevgili b\u00fcy\u00fcklerinden… G\u00f6zlerinin i\u00e7ine bak\u0131yorlar o b\u00fcy\u00fcyen \u00e7ocu\u011fun, bir kerecik g\u00fcls\u00fcn diye. Fakat unuttuklar\u0131 bir \u015fey oluyor; her fidan\u0131n nas\u0131l ekildiyse \u00f6yle b\u00fcy\u00fcd\u00fc\u011f\u00fc. Anne ve babas\u0131n\u0131n b\u0131rakt\u0131\u011f\u0131 yerden devam ediyor sevgisizli\u011fi, umutsuzlu\u011fu, \u00f6fkeyi yaymaya; son noktas\u0131na kadar u\u011fra\u015f\u0131yor c\u00fcmlesini tamamlamaya.<\/p>\n
\u0130\u015fte g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fczdeki \u00f6l\u00fcmleri ba\u015flatan, evdeki \u015fiddetlerin sebebi olan insanlar b\u00f6yle b\u00fcy\u00fcyor, b\u00f6yle yeti\u015fiyor. Topra\u011fa ekmedi\u011fimiz meyve tohumundan dolay\u0131 topraktan meyve beklemek ne kadar imk\u00e2ns\u0131z ise \u00f6yle b\u00fcy\u00fcyen, o \u015fekilde yeti\u015fen \u00e7ocuktan ise sevgi beklemek, \u015fefkat beklemek de o derece imk\u00e2ns\u0131zd\u0131r. \u0130mk\u00e2ns\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131n kap\u0131s\u0131nda beklemek yerine, bah\u00e7emizde yeti\u015ftirdi\u011fimiz o g\u00fczel \u00e7i\u00e7eklerimizin sevgisiyle ilgilenmeliyiz.<\/p>\n
\u015eimdilerde g\u00f6r\u00fcyorum, insanlar g\u00fcl\u00fcmsemekten aciz h\u00e2le gelmi\u015fler. Herkesin y\u00fcz\u00fcnde bir kay\u0131ptan haber var gibi. Ne var ki hayat\u0131n t\u00fcm ciddiyetine ra\u011fmen her sabah g\u00fcl\u00fcmseyerek uyansak! Ailemiz ile mutlu bir \u015fekilde kahvalt\u0131lara otursak\u2026 \u0130nan\u0131n b\u00f6yle yap\u0131yoruz diye hi\u00e7bir polis bize ceza kesmez. Hi\u00e7bir doktor tedavi edeyim, ate\u015fin mi var acaba diye muayene etmez. Evimizde b\u00fcy\u00fcyen hi\u00e7bir \u00e7ocuk k\u00f6t\u00fc yolu se\u00e7mez.<\/p>\n
Ge\u00e7enlerde gitti\u011fim bir akraba ziyaretinde \u00e7ok g\u00fcld\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm i\u00e7in ma\u015fallah neden hep g\u00fcl\u00fcyorsun diye g\u00fcl\u00fcn\u00e7 bir soru ile kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131m. Verdi\u011fim tek cevap, \u201c\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc g\u00fclmek g\u00fczel!\u201d olmu\u015ftu. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc surat as\u0131p oturmay\u0131 de\u011fil, sevgi ile ne\u015fe ile g\u00fcl\u00fcmsemeyi se\u00e7iyordum. Kimsenin hayat\u0131 kolay de\u011fil elbet. \u0130nsan\u0131z, a\u011flamak da, \u00f6fkelenmek de, \u00fcz\u00fclmek de hatta yeri gelir \u00fczmek bile hakk\u0131m\u0131z olabilir belki de. Bunlar\u0131 da ya\u015famal\u0131y\u0131z elbet fakat bu etraf\u0131m\u0131zdaki insanlar\u0131n can\u0131n\u0131 ac\u0131tacak, haklar\u0131n\u0131 ihlal edecek ve k\u00f6t\u00fc an\u0131lara sebebiyet verecek dereceye ka\u00e7mamal\u0131.<\/p>\n
G\u00fclmekten ka\u00e7\u0131yor gibi baz\u0131 insanlar. Sanki g\u00fclmemek i\u00e7in tutuyor i\u00e7indeki benli\u011fi. Neden hi\u00e7 ak\u0131llara gelmiyor bir daha ge\u00e7ip giden g\u00fcnlere d\u00f6nemeyece\u011fi. G\u00fclmenin, ne\u015fenin tarifi yok ki birbirimizden al\u0131p k\u00e2\u011f\u0131tlara yaz\u0131p saklayal\u0131m! Zaman\u0131 geldi\u011finde o ka\u011f\u0131tta yazanlar\u0131 pi\u015firip de nas\u0131l ortaya b\u0131rakal\u0131m?
\nBu c\u00fcmleleri arkada b\u0131rak\u0131rken, ad\u0131 gibi kendi de zarif olan Cahit Zarifo\u011flu’nun bir s\u00f6z\u00fc gelir akl\u0131ma:
\n\u201c\u0130nsan kendi mutlu olma imk\u00e2n\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6rebilmeli. Mutluluksa, filmlerin, romanlar\u0131n i\u00e7inde de\u011fil, kendi ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z basit hayat\u0131n i\u00e7indedir. Ve \u00f6nemli olan, \u2018ya\u015fan\u0131lan an\u2019d\u0131r.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Sevgisizli\u011fin dayat\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131 bu co\u011frafyada ya\u015famak ger\u00e7ekten…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":127,"featured_media":9715,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[67,53],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kadrandergi.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9691"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kadrandergi.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kadrandergi.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kadrandergi.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/127"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kadrandergi.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=9691"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.kadrandergi.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9691\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kadrandergi.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=\/"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kadrandergi.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=9691"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kadrandergi.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=9691"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kadrandergi.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=9691"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}