{"id":9677,"date":"2019-12-04T21:30:59","date_gmt":"2019-12-04T19:30:59","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/kadrandergi.com.tr\/?p=9677"},"modified":"2019-12-04T21:30:59","modified_gmt":"2019-12-04T19:30:59","slug":"tesekkurler-beyler","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.kadrandergi.com.tr\/?p=9677","title":{"rendered":"TE\u015eEKK\u00dcRLER BEYLER!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Sosyal medya \u00fczerinden y\u00fcr\u00fctt\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fcz toplumsal duyarl\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z ve sosyal ya\u015fam\u0131m\u0131z\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Hayat\u0131ndaki kad\u0131nlar\u0131, hayat\u0131n\u0131 s\u00fcrd\u00fcrecek olan makineler olarak kullanan insanlar\u0131n; toplumsal ahlak, cinsiyet e\u015fitli\u011fi, kad\u0131n cinayetleri \u00fczerinden a\u00e7\u0131klamalar yapmas\u0131; toplumsal \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcmlemelerde bulunmas\u0131 \u00e7eli\u015fkilerini ya\u015f\u0131yoruz.<\/p>\n<p>Yap\u0131lmas\u0131 gereken \u015fu idi, bu idi, bu da bizim utanc\u0131m\u0131z olsun, o bir anne idi, evlatt\u0131, bilmem kimin bilmem nesi, kad\u0131nlar\u0131 koruyamad\u0131k, \u00e7ocuklar susar sen susma vb. ile ba\u015flay\u0131p biten payla\u015f\u0131mlarla de\u011fil de ataerkil d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncenin yerle bir olmas\u0131yla (Evet yerle bir. Evet, bu bir e\u015fitlik de\u011fil.) de\u011fi\u015fecek.<\/p>\n<p>Adalet sistemine idam cezas\u0131n\u0131n gelmesiyle de\u011fil. Veya \u201cayn\u0131 \u015feyi senin anana, bac\u0131na yapsalar\u2026\u201d mantalitesiyle de de\u011fil\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Kad\u0131n; anne de\u011fildir, bac\u0131 de\u011fildir, k\u0131z\u0131n\u0131z de\u011fildir, evinizdeki k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck ev aletleriniz de de\u011fildir. Kad\u0131n yaln\u0131zca <em>insand\u0131r<\/em>. \u0130nsan\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Dilinize yerle\u015fmi\u015f en basit c\u00fcmlede bile sakl\u0131 olan o eril g\u00fc\u00e7 var ya, i\u015fte o; t\u00fcm bu olan bitenin temelidir asl\u0131nda.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7eli\u015fik duyarl\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 da al\u0131n\u0131z o, bol \u201clayk\u201d alan payla\u015f\u0131mlar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 da l\u00fctfen.<\/p>\n<p>Sonra, bir de istatistiklere bir g\u00f6z at\u0131n derim. T\u00fcm\u00fcne bakmaya internet kotan\u0131z veya \u015farj\u0131n\u0131z yetmeyebilir. \u0130yisi mi siz, son bir ay i\u00e7erisinde olan bitene bir bak\u0131verin\u2026<\/p>\n<p>S\u00fcr\u00fc psikolojisi i\u00e7erisinde g\u00f6stermi\u015f oldu\u011funuz tepkileriniz, sosyal ya\u015fam\u0131n\u0131za uyarlamad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z payla\u015f\u0131mlar\u0131n\u0131zla beraber g\u00fcncellenmeyi beklerken siz, dilinizdeki erilli\u011fin verdi\u011fi g\u00fc\u00e7le yolunuza devam edeceksiniz!<\/p>\n<p>Kad\u0131nlar; anne olacak, bac\u0131 olacak, evinizdeki k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck ev aletleri dahi olacak ama yaln\u0131zca <em>kad\u0131n<\/em> olamayacak.<\/p>\n<p>Ve bu olan bitenler de de\u011fi\u015fmeyecek.<\/p>\n<p><em>Erkek adaletin<\/em> i\u00e7inde ger\u00e7ek adaleti aray\u0131p duraca\u011f\u0131z; b\u00fcy\u00fck firmalar\u0131n reklam kampanyalar\u0131nda, c\u00fcmle \u00e2lemin sosyal payla\u015f\u0131mlar\u0131nda, bir sevgilinin c\u00fcmlelerinde, bir dostun bak\u0131\u015flar\u0131nda, bir kom\u015funun penceresinde, orada burada\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Te\u015fekk\u00fcrler Beyler; bug\u00fcn\u00fc de b\u00f6yle ge\u00e7iriverdik, sayenizde.<\/p>\n<p>Payla\u015fmaya de\u011fer g\u00f6r\u00fcrseniz e\u011fer; bug\u00fcn 14 ya\u015f\u0131nda bir k\u0131z \u00e7ocu\u011fu intihar etti. \u0130stanbul\u2019da bir kad\u0131n, kendini m\u00fcdafaa etmek isterken e\u015fini b\u0131\u00e7aklad\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in, kasten adam \u00f6ld\u00fcrmek su\u00e7undan tutukland\u0131. Sivas\u2019ta bir avukat, bo\u015fanmak \u00fczere oldu\u011fu e\u015fi taraf\u0131ndan darp edildi.<\/p>\n<p>Bir de Haluk Levent, Emine Bulut\u2019un k\u0131z\u0131 ile telefonda g\u00f6r\u00fcnt\u00fcl\u00fc g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015ft\u00fc.<\/p>\n<p>Ama bunu zaten bir\u00e7o\u011fumuz biliyoruz. Bir\u00e7o\u011fumuz da payla\u015ft\u0131k, gurur duyduk, takdir ettik(!)\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Bug\u00fcn de bize d\u00fc\u015fen g\u00f6revi fazlas\u0131yla yerine getirdik; i\u015f yerinde, trafikte, oturdu\u011fumuz kafelerde, parklarda, bah\u00e7elerde, plajda, sokakta, evde, internette; bolca, dilimizin ve bedenimizin t\u00fcm o eril g\u00fcc\u00fcyle, bir yandan toplum incelemesi yap\u0131p bir yandan da sosyal ya\u015fam\u0131m\u0131zda varl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6rmezden geldi\u011fimiz kad\u0131nlar\u0131n, varl\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 yaln\u0131zca ihtiya\u00e7lar\u0131m\u0131z do\u011frultusunda hat\u0131rlamaya devam ettik.<\/p>\n<p>Te\u015fekk\u00fcrler Beyler; \u00e7ok duyarl\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z. El birli\u011fiyle bunun da &#8230; de\u011fil mi?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Sosyal medya \u00fczerinden y\u00fcr\u00fctt\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fcz toplumsal duyarl\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":212,"featured_media":9679,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[67,53],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kadrandergi.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9677"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kadrandergi.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kadrandergi.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kadrandergi.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/212"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kadrandergi.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=9677"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.kadrandergi.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9677\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kadrandergi.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=\/"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kadrandergi.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=9677"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kadrandergi.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=9677"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kadrandergi.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=9677"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}