\u201cBir kad\u0131na ne verirseniz verin, onu daha da b\u00fcy\u00fck h\u00e2le getirir. Ona sperm verirseniz, size bir \u00e7ocuk verir. Ona bir ev verirsiniz, size bir yuva verir. Ona sebze verirsiniz, size yemek verir. Ona bir g\u00fcl\u00fcc\u00fck verirsiniz, size kalbini verir. Ona bir \u015fark\u0131 s\u00f6yleyin, size konser verir. Kendisine verileni \u00e7arp\u0131p \u00e7o\u011faltarak geri verir. Bu y\u00fczden ona \u00e7amur atarsan\u0131z, kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131nda bir batakl\u0131kta bo\u011fulmaya haz\u0131r olun.\u201d<\/p>\n
|Aziz Nesin<\/p>\n
Kuru kalabal\u0131klar, ruhsuz sloganlar, bilin\u00e7siz milyonlar, \u00f6fke n\u00f6betleri, ba\u011f\u0131r\u0131\u015flar, ba\u011f\u0131r\u0131\u015flar, ba\u011f\u0131r\u0131\u015flar… \u0130nsanl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 kaybetmi\u015f, fikir yap\u0131s\u0131 kirli, vicdanlar\u0131 k\u00fcfl\u00fc, hi\u00e7 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmemi\u015f, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnme ihtiyac\u0131 hissetmemi\u015f bir d\u00fcnya. Neresinden tutsak elimizde kalan bir \u00e7a\u011f\u2026
\nD\u00fcnyadaki en b\u00fcy\u00fck su\u00e7, hakikati savunmakt\u0131r. Hakikat iki ucu keskin k\u0131l\u0131\u00e7 hatta iki ucu boklu de\u011fnektir. Bu ger\u00e7e\u011fi ac\u0131 \u015fekilde \u00f6\u011freten en iyi \u00f6rneklerden birisi de Farkhunda Melikzade\u2026 27 ya\u015f\u0131ndad\u0131r hen\u00fcz Farkhunda. Hakikatin fark\u0131nda olsa da, d\u00fcnyan\u0131n fark\u0131nda de\u011fil. \u00d6\u011fretmen aday\u0131 olan bu Afgan kad\u0131n zaman\u0131n en b\u00fcy\u00fck c\u00fcrm\u00fcn\u00fc i\u015fleyerek do\u011fru bildi\u011fi bir \u015feyi anlatt\u0131. Ne b\u00fcy\u00fck c\u00fcret!..
\nBir cami \u00f6n\u00fcnde \u00e7ocuk sahibi olmak i\u00e7in muska sat\u0131n alan kad\u0131nlar\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcnce bunlar\u0131n dinde yerinin olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 s\u00f6yler. Bunun \u00fczerine muska sat\u0131c\u0131s\u0131 olan mollayla aralar\u0131nda bir tart\u0131\u015fma ba\u015flar. Bir \u201ckad\u0131n\u0131n\u201d s\u00f6zleri \u00fczerine afallayan ve ezildi\u011fini hisseden m\u00fcbarek(!) mollam\u0131z \u201cBu kad\u0131n Kur\u2019an yakt\u0131\u201d diye ba\u011f\u0131rmaya ba\u015flar. Ne b\u00fcy\u00fck bir hayal g\u00fcc\u00fc… Bir kad\u0131n\u0131n bir molla kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda \u015fans\u0131 ne kadar olabilir? Hi\u00e7\u2026 Farkhunda’n\u0131n etraf\u0131 hemen \u00e7evrilir dinin aziz koruyucular\u0131 taraf\u0131ndan. Sesi duyan kim varsa toplan\u0131r. B\u00f6yle b\u00fcy\u00fck bir g\u00fcnah cezas\u0131z kalmamal\u0131d\u0131r ne de olsa. Farkhunda her ne kadar \u201cBen M\u00fcsl\u00fcman\u0131m, M\u00fcsl\u00fcmanlar Kur\u2019an yakmaz\u201d dese de duyulmaz. Duyulmas\u0131na da gerek yoktur zaten. Bir mollan\u0131n s\u00f6z\u00fcnden sonra bir kad\u0131n\u0131n s\u00f6z\u00fcne kimse itimat etmez \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc. Ta\u015f ve sopalarla d\u00f6v\u00fcl\u00fcr Farkhunda, tekme atarlar, \u00fcst\u00fcnde z\u0131plarlar ama ne yapsalar da i\u00e7leri so\u011fumaz. Civardaki birka\u00e7 insanl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 kaybetmemi\u015f insan, Farkhunda’n\u0131n \u00e7\u0131\u011fl\u0131klar\u0131 kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda sessiz kalamay\u0131p polis \u00e7a\u011f\u0131r\u0131r. Polislerse bir din d\u00fc\u015fman\u0131n\u0131 kurtarmaya gerek duymaz, ibret olsun di\u011ferlerine diye d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnerek sadece izlerler. Ne derin bir d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce bi\u00e7imi… Cezas\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7ekmelidir k\u00e2fir sonu\u00e7ta. \u0130yice d\u00f6vmelerine ra\u011fmen h\u0131z\u0131n\u0131 alamayan S\u00dcR\u00dc, yerlerde s\u00fcr\u00fcnd\u00fcr\u00fcrler Farkhunda’y\u0131. Yetmez! Bir \u00e7at\u0131ya \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131p a\u015fa\u011f\u0131 atarlar. Yetmez! \u00dcst\u00fcnden arabayla ge\u00e7erler defalarca. O da yetmez! Bir dere kenar\u0131na g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fcp orada d\u00f6vmeye devam ederler, \u00e7oktan ruhunu teslim etmi\u015f olan kad\u0131n\u0131. \u00dcst\u00fcne kocaman ta\u015flar f\u0131rlat\u0131rlar, tekmelerler ama ne yapsalar da yetmez! En son \u00fczerine benzin d\u00f6k\u00fcp yakarlar. Ve hamdolsun d\u00fcnya \u00fczerinden bir din d\u00fc\u015fman\u0131 daha eksilmi\u015f, dinin izzeti korunmu\u015f, dinin bek\u00e7ili\u011fi yap\u0131lm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r art\u0131k. T\u00fcm bu ya\u015fananlar videoya \u00e7ekilerek de kay\u0131t alt\u0131na al\u0131nm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r… B\u00f6ylece ba\u015fkalar\u0131na da ibret olmay\u0131 hedeflemi\u015f olabilirler, kim bilir. Ne heybetli bir g\u00f6zda\u011f\u0131! Farkhunda’n\u0131n babas\u0131 aran\u0131p, \u201cK\u0131z\u0131n g\u00fcnah i\u015fledi, gel al\u201d denir. Babas\u0131 k\u0131z\u0131ndan utanacak hatta ona lanetler edecektir bu zihniyetsiz zihniyetlere g\u00f6re. Ama d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fckleri gibi olmaz… Y\u0131llard\u0131r s\u00fcregelen d\u00fczensiz d\u00fczene kar\u015f\u0131 bir k\u0131v\u0131lc\u0131m olur Farkhunda, bir yang\u0131n\u0131n ba\u015flamas\u0131na vesile olur. Yak\u0131lm\u0131\u015f, par\u00e7alanm\u0131\u015f, ezilmi\u015f bedeni binlerce Afgan kad\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6fke seline d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr. Y\u0131llard\u0131r ezilmi\u015f, horlanm\u0131\u015f, \u00f6rselenmi\u015f, al\u0131nm\u0131\u015f, sat\u0131lm\u0131\u015f, tecav\u00fcz edilmi\u015f, had bildirilmi\u015f kad\u0131nlar, \u00fclke genelinde protestolar yaparlar Farkhunda i\u00e7in. Cenazesi kad\u0131nlar\u0131n s\u0131rt\u0131nda ta\u015f\u0131n\u0131r. Ve k\u0131z\u0131n\u0131 lanetlemesi beklenen baba, k\u0131z\u0131na sahip \u00e7\u0131karak soyad\u0131n\u0131 Farkhunda olarak de\u011fi\u015ftirir.
\nArd\u0131ndan ba\u015flayan mahkeme s\u00fcresince 26 ki\u015fi tutuklan\u0131r, 13 polis a\u00e7\u0131\u011fa al\u0131n\u0131r. Molla d\u00e2hil 4 ki\u015fiye idam karar\u0131 \u00e7\u0131kar, sonra karar iptal olur 20 y\u0131l hapse d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr.
\nTutuklulardan baz\u0131lar\u0131 k\u0131sa s\u00fcreli cezalar al\u0131r, baz\u0131lar\u0131ysa serbest kal\u0131r. Geriye \u00f6l\u00fc bir kad\u0131n, yozla\u015fm\u0131\u015f bir adalet, kavuran bir \u00f6fke kal\u0131r. Farkhunda bir isimdir. Di\u011fer milyarlarca isimden sadece biri. Di\u011fer milyarlarca kad\u0131ndan sadece biri.
\n\u0130\u015fte b\u00f6yledir. D\u00fczen b\u00f6yledir, d\u00fcnya b\u00f6yledir, h\u00fck\u00fcm b\u00f6yledir. Hakikat g\u00fcne\u015f gibidir ve yarasalar \u0131\u015f\u0131ktan ho\u015flanmaz. D\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce toprak gibidir, yarasalar topra\u011fa basmaz. Bu d\u00fcnyada adalet \u00e7oktan \u00f6lm\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcr. E\u015fitlik \u00f6lm\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcr, insanl\u0131k \u00f6lm\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcr, vicdan \u00f6lm\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcr, sevgi \u00f6lm\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcr, merhamet \u00f6lm\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcr. Topra\u011f\u0131 yararak \u00e7\u0131kan nefret vard\u0131r, \u00fcst\u00fcnl\u00fck vard\u0131r, g\u00fc\u00e7 vard\u0131r, g\u00fcce tapanlar vard\u0131r. Kurulan isimsiz hiyerar\u015finin her noktas\u0131ndaki yeg\u00e2ne arg\u00fcmansa; kad\u0131nlar zay\u0131ft\u0131r!..
\nBu d\u00fczende, biyolojik olmasa da sosyolojik olarak d\u00fcnyada insanlar, bitkiler, hayvanlar ve kad\u0131nlar vard\u0131r. Kad\u0131n eksiktir, kad\u0131n k\u00fclfettir. D\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce hakk\u0131 s\u0131n\u0131rland\u0131r\u0131lm\u0131\u015f, cinsel bir objeden gayr\u0131 nedir? Erke\u011fin bembeyaz namusunun ortas\u0131na d\u00fc\u015fen kapkara bir lekeden gayr\u0131 ne? Farkhunda sadece bir isim, Farkhunda sadece bir \u00f6rnek. Farkhunda sadece bir kad\u0131n…
\nKad\u0131n haklar\u0131 ve kad\u0131n\u0131n k\u0131ymeti d\u00fcnya edebiyat\u0131nda ve hukukunda \u00e7ok b\u00fcy\u00fck yer tutar ama d\u00fcnya ya\u015fam\u0131nda \u00e7ok\u00e7a yumruk. \u00dclkemizde de dudak tiryakili\u011fi yapan s\u00f6zler vard\u0131r mesela bu konuda. Kad\u0131na el kalkmaz, kad\u0131n hassast\u0131r, kad\u0131nlar annelerimizdir, kad\u0131nlar \u00e7i\u00e7ektir. \u00c7i\u00e7ek… Kopar\u0131lan, soldurulan, kurutulan \u00e7i\u00e7ekler. Bizim memlekette \u00e7ok kap\u0131 vard\u0131r mesela, hep \u00e7arpadurur kad\u0131nlara. Kad\u0131n d\u00f6vmeyi meziyet sayan hatta bununla \u00f6v\u00fcnen, hava atan canl\u0131lar. Ki gezegende e\u015fine \u015fiddet g\u00f6steren tek canl\u0131n\u0131n insan olmas\u0131 ne garip. (\u00c7iftle\u015ftikten sonra erke\u011fini yiyen karadul bundan m\u00fcstesna.) Yola \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z yerle oldu\u011fumuz yer aras\u0131ndaki mesafe korkun\u00e7. Ge\u00e7en onca zamana, verilen onca hakka, kurulan onca sisteme kar\u015f\u0131 toplum \u015fiddete d\u00f6n\u00fck, k\u0131s\u0131r ve s\u0131\u011f\u0131r bir h\u00e2l ald\u0131. Kad\u0131n\u0131, \u00e7ocu\u011fu, masumu, mazlumu koruyaman acziyet. Adaletin kollar\u0131 c\u0131l\u0131z, sesi k\u0131s\u0131k kald\u0131. Adaml\u0131k, \u015fiddetle ayn\u0131 oranda artt\u0131; Netice, sa\u00e7mal\u0131k…
\nKad\u0131n zay\u0131f, kad\u0131n hassas, kad\u0131n nahif. Korunmaya ihtiya\u00e7 duyan bir ya\u015fam formu de\u011fil mi? Hayat\u0131n\u0131 erke\u011finin \u00fczerinden idame ettirip sadece ona s\u00f6ylenenleri yaparak s\u00fcrd\u00fcrmeli de\u011fil mi; de\u011fil i\u015fte. Amerika\u2019da siyahi direni\u015fin ba\u015flamas\u0131nda ve tarihe Montgomery Otob\u00fcs Boykotu olarak ge\u00e7ecek isyan\u0131n k\u0131v\u0131lc\u0131m\u0131 olan Rosa Park bir kad\u0131nd\u0131. Afganistan’da binlerce kad\u0131n\u0131 aya\u011fa kald\u0131ran Farkhunda Melikzade kad\u0131nd\u0131. Radyoaktiviteyi ke\u015ffeden ve iki kez Nobel \u00d6d\u00fcl\u00fc\u2019n\u00fc alan Marie Curie kad\u0131nd\u0131. Binlerce insan\u0131n hayat\u0131n\u0131 kurtaran Rahibe Teresa kad\u0131nd\u0131, Kurtulu\u015f Sava\u015f\u0131\u2019nda cepheye m\u00fchimmat g\u00f6t\u00fcren kad\u0131nlard\u0131, Nene Hatun kad\u0131nd\u0131, \u00fclkesini da\u011f\u0131lmaktan kurtaran Indira Gandhi kad\u0131nd\u0131. Anna Frank, Benazir Butto, Jeanne d\u2019Arc, Eleanor Roosevelt, Florence Nightingale, Rosa Luxemburg, Fatma Aliye, Sabiha G\u00f6k\u00e7en… \u0130simlerini yazamad\u0131\u011f\u0131m say\u0131s\u0131z isimleri de ekleyebilseydik buraya, anlard\u0131k empoze edilen t\u00fcm yalanlar\u0131n ard\u0131nda saklanan ger\u00e7e\u011fi; kad\u0131n bu d\u00fcnyadaki en g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc canl\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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