Gurbet ve gurbet dedikten sonra hemen t\u2019nin ard\u0131na s\u0131ralanan \u00fc\u00e7 nokta. Hani kursa\u011f\u0131ndan a\u015fa\u011f\u0131ya indirmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131n yabanc\u0131 cismin verdi\u011fi ac\u0131 gibi\u2026<\/p>\n
Mesele asl\u0131nda gurbette de\u011fil, mesele o \u00fc\u00e7 noktada. O \u00fc\u00e7 noktada ne ya\u015fanm\u0131\u015fl\u0131klar ve ne ya\u015fanamam\u0131\u015fl\u0131klar var. Bir miktar sevgi, bir miktar \u00f6zlem, bir miktar geride kalanlar ve alabildi\u011fi kadar g\u00f6zya\u015f\u0131.<\/p>\n
Bize, hep ula\u015famayaca\u011f\u0131m\u0131z zamanlara ait olan \u015feyler g\u00fczel geliyor. Neden b\u00f6yle oluyor anlam\u0131yorum. Ya ge\u00e7mi\u015fi ya da gelece\u011fi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyoruz. \u015eimdi\u2019ye yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z muamele i\u00e7ler ac\u0131s\u0131\u2026<\/p>\n
Oysaki bizim b\u00fct\u00fcn kahr\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 \u2018\u015eimdi\u2019 \u00e7ekiyor. Ge\u00e7mi\u015fi \u015fimdi \u00f6zl\u00fcyoruz, gelece\u011fi \u015fimdi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyoruz. A\u011flarken, bunal\u0131rken, sinirlenirken, mutluyken, severken, yaln\u0131zken, muhabbet ederken, yolda y\u00fcr\u00fcrken, ya\u011fmurda \u0131slan\u0131rken, t\u0131rna\u011f\u0131n\u0131 keserken, foto\u011fraf \u00e7ekerken, yatarken, kalkarken ve hatta \u00f6l\u00fcrken bile \u2018\u015eimdi\u2019deyiz.<\/p>\n
\u015eimdi\u2019yi kaybedince ge\u00e7mi\u015f oluyor i\u015fte. Kaybedince \u201cNeden gittin, neden?\u201d diye \u00e7\u0131\u011fl\u0131klar atmak yerine \u201cGe\u00e7mi\u015fe \u00f6zlem\u201d ad\u0131 alt\u0131nda narin ve duygusal davranmay\u0131 tercih ediyoruz. Kim \u201cDeli\u201d diye damgalanmak ister ki? Tabi ki b\u00f6yle davranaca\u011f\u0131z. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc biz ak\u0131ll\u0131, zeki ve uslu insanlar\u0131z. Kanunlara uyar, k\u0131rm\u0131z\u0131 \u0131\u015f\u0131kta asla kar\u015f\u0131ya ge\u00e7meyiz. Do\u011fa dostumuz, hava yolda\u015f\u0131m\u0131z, bulutlar da hayallerimizdir bizim. Daha ne olsun? Bunun \u00f6tesi tam te\u015fekk\u00fcll\u00fc hastane i\u015fte.<\/p>\n
Ah \u015fu biz ve k\u0131r\u0131lmas\u0131n diye t\u00fcm \u00f6nlemleri al\u0131p Samsung Galaxy S6 Edge ile yar\u0131\u015ft\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z tabular\u0131m\u0131z!<\/p>\n
\u015eimdi\u2019yi sevelim, \u015eimdi\u2019ye sahip \u00e7\u0131kal\u0131m. \u015eimdi\u2019yi iyi de\u011ferlendirirsek g\u00fczel ve tebess\u00fcmle yad edece\u011fimiz bir ge\u00e7mi\u015fimiz ve umut dolu bir gelece\u011fimiz olur. Belki biraz da mis kokulu \u00e7i\u00e7eklerimiz, bir bardak \u00e7ay\u0131m\u0131z, \u00e7ay\u0131n yan\u0131nda en sevdi\u011fimiz tatl\u0131m\u0131z bile olur. Hatta bunlarla da bitmez, bi bakars\u0131n\u0131z cennetimiz de olur, havz-\u0131 kevserimiz de..<\/p>\n
Gurbetle giri\u015f yapt\u0131k madem, yolumuzu \u015fa\u015f\u0131r\u0131p, \u00e7\u0131k\u0131\u015f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 yang\u0131n merdiveninden yapmayal\u0131m.<\/p>\n
Ger\u00e7i gurbet, b\u00fcy\u00fck yang\u0131n!<\/p>\n
Yang\u0131n merdivenine ihtiyac\u0131m\u0131z yok de\u011fil!<\/p>\n
Ama b\u00fcy\u00fck kavu\u015fma i\u00e7in bu yang\u0131nda kal\u0131p yanmak, kavrulmak, d\u0131\u015far\u0131da olup, yang\u0131n\u0131 seyreden olmaktan \u00e7ok daha iyi. Bundan dolay\u0131 b\u00fct\u00fcn yang\u0131n \u00e7\u0131k\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131 kapat asker! Gurbette kal\u0131p, komple yan\u0131yoruz! Ordular! \u0130leri! Mar\u015f!<\/p>\n
Gurbet mevzusu \u00f6telerin tee eksi kutbundan ba\u015flay\u0131p taa art\u0131 kutbuna do\u011fru ilerledi\u011fi i\u00e7in \u00e7ok derin bir mevzu. Bu nedenle bildi\u011fimiz ve ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 sand\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z d\u00fcnyal\u0131k gurbetler \u00e7ok s\u0131\u011f kal\u0131yor. Ya\u015fanm\u0131\u015fl\u0131klar bile s\u0131\u011f kal\u0131yorken bu mevzuyu benim anlatmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmam b\u0131rak\u0131n s\u0131\u011f kalmay\u0131 t\u00fcm suyunu \u00e7ekmi\u015f oluyor. Herkesin gurbeti kendi i\u00e7inde.. Gurbet ki, kalpte ba\u015flar, sonra d\u0131\u015f d\u00fcnyayla tan\u0131\u015f\u0131r. Bu nedenle b\u0131rakal\u0131m da gurbetle ilgili t\u00fcm sayfalar\u0131 kalbimiz doldursun. Sen sadece \u201cS\u0131la m\u0131, gurbet mi? Ad\u0131n\u0131 koy\u201d sevgili okuyucu..<\/p>\n
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NOT: Ben bu yaz\u0131y\u0131 \u015fimdi yazd\u0131m. Siz gelecekte okuyacaks\u0131n\u0131z. Sizin okudu\u011funuz an \u015eimdi\u2019niz olacak. Ve yaz\u0131y\u0131 okuman\u0131z bitince bu yaz\u0131 sizin i\u00e7in de benim i\u00e7in de ge\u00e7mi\u015fte kalacak. Ama ne olur ge\u00e7mi\u015fi tozland\u0131rmay\u0131n! Zira baz\u0131 ge\u00e7mi\u015fler \u015eimdi\u2019niz olabilir. Arada bir bu yaz\u0131n\u0131n da tozunu al\u0131n olur mu?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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