\u2018Samimiyet\u2019
\n\u0130nsan\u0131 insan oldu\u011fu i\u00e7in dikkate alabilmekle ba\u015flar. Sana, bana samimiyeti de\u011fersizdir kimsenin. \u201cSenin i\u00e7in herkesi y\u0131kar\u0131m\u201d diyenden kork en evvel, \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc herkes i\u00e7in seni parampar\u00e7a edecek olan da odur.\u2028G\u00f6zlerine bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131n zaman o \u0131\u015f\u0131\u011f\u0131 g\u00f6rebilmektir, samimiyet. Bir insanla pek fazla lakaytl\u0131k de\u011fil bahsetti\u011fim, az bilen insan\u0131n en yo\u011fun sevgisidir. \u2028Hi\u00e7 ger\u00e7ekten samimi oldu\u011funa inand\u0131n\u0131z m\u0131 birinin? T\u00fcm s\u00f6zleri yalans\u0131z, davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131 anlams\u0131z\u2026
\nSamimiyet, y\u00fcrekte aranmaz. G\u00f6zlerde sakl\u0131d\u0131r \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc.
\nG\u00f6zler kalbin aynas\u0131d\u0131r diyor ya \u015fair, aynen \u00f6yle.
\nG\u00fcn gelip ba\u015f\u0131n\u0131 yaslayaca\u011f\u0131n omuzdur samimiyet. G\u00f6zya\u015f\u0131na, g\u00f6zya\u015f\u0131ndan katand\u0131r. Derdine, derman\u0131n\u0131 saland\u0131r samimiyet.
\nT\u00fcm la\u00e7ka sevdalar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 geride b\u0131rak\u0131n ve bak\u0131n annenizin bak\u0131\u015flar\u0131na.
\n\u0130\u015fte tamda odur samimiyet.<\/p>\n
\u2018Vefa\u2019
\nMinnet duygusu diye bilinir. Vefa bir bor\u00e7tur evvela, sahibinin zaman\u0131nda bor\u00e7 niyetsiz verdi\u011fi bor\u00e7. Ama zaman\u0131 gelince en k\u0131ymetli alacak haline gelir. Yolunu g\u00f6zler, borcunu \u00f6deyecek olan\u0131 bekler. Kimden, ne zaman gelece\u011fini bilmesekte en anlaml\u0131 alacak vefad\u0131r. \u2028Bor\u00e7lunun kam\u00e7\u0131s\u0131 borcudur derler. Namusu ise vefas\u0131d\u0131r.
\nBa\u011fl\u0131 kalma, s\u00f6z\u00fcnde durma.
\nNas\u0131l ba\u011fl\u0131 kal\u0131n\u0131r bilen var m\u0131? G\u00f6ren duyan var m\u0131 nerede en g\u00fczel de\u011ferler, nerede ve kimdeler?
\nZaman de\u011fi\u015fmi\u015f, as\u0131r ba\u015fkala\u015fm\u0131\u015f diyor asra ev sahipli\u011fi yapm\u0131\u015f adam.
\nZaman de\u011fi\u015fmi\u015f elbet, as\u0131r ba\u015fkala\u015fm\u0131\u015f. Kelimeler yabana at\u0131lm\u0131\u015f, unutulmu\u015f.
\n\u201cVefa\u201d unutulmam\u0131\u015f. Nerede,kimde oldu\u011funu bilmesekte, vefaya vefa g\u00f6sterilmi\u015f.
\nVefa de\u011ferdir, kaybolan. K\u0131ymeti da\u011flar\u0131 a\u015fan, \u015fimdilerde ortal\u0131kta olmayan y\u00fcce de\u011fer.
\nBulana ne ala..<\/p>\n
\u2018Had\u2019
\nK\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck \u00e7ocuklara ilk do\u011fduklar\u0131 zamanlar devaml\u0131 kar\u015f\u0131lar\u0131na ge\u00e7ip hecelenir defalarca \u201canne\u201d \u201cbaba\u201d gibi kelimeler. \u0130lk anne mi dedi baba m\u0131 dedi tart\u0131\u015fmalar\u0131n\u0131n son bulmas\u0131 belkide aylarca s\u00fcrer. Biri galip gelemeden daha b\u00fcy\u00fcr yavru ve harfler, rakamlar, \u015fark\u0131lar \u00f6\u011frenir.
\nAma ona verilen de\u011ferlerden hi\u00e7 biri \u201chad\u201d bilmeyi \u00f6\u011fretemez \u00e7ocu\u011fa. \u2028Bir \u00e7ocu\u011fa \u00f6\u011fretilecek en \u00f6nemli yarg\u0131d\u0131r \u2018had\u2019. \u0130nsan kendini, s\u0131n\u0131r\u0131n\u0131 bilmesiyle ba\u015flar \u00e7evresini, ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131 bilmesi.
\nDe\u011fer yarg\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131n bir banknot kadar de\u011feri olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 bu zamanda insan\u0131n kendi de\u011ferlerine sahip \u00e7\u0131kabilmesi b\u00fcy\u00fck bir erdemdir. \u201cHad\u201d bilmek, de\u011fer bilmektir, s\u0131n\u0131r \u00e7izmektir.\u2028S\u0131n\u0131r\u0131 ufak bir a\u015f\u0131m \u00e7ok b\u00fcy\u00fck sonu\u00e7lar do\u011furur. \u0130nsanlar\u0131n bir yerleri var diyor ya Ya\u015far Kemal, ince yerleri. \u0130\u015fte oralara dokunmamak laz\u0131m.\u0130nsano\u011flu \u2018had\u2019 bilmelidir.<\/p>\n
\u2018Sevgi\u2019
\nU\u011fruna kelimeler, sat\u0131lar dizilip yapraklar feda edilecek en kutsal de\u011fer. \u2028\u00d6yle ki hepsi burda ba\u015fl\u0131yor kelimlerin. Sevgi olmadan, hi\u00e7 biri var olam\u0131yor. \u2028\u00d6yle saklanacak, esirgenecek duygu de\u011fil bu, etrafa da\u011f\u0131tmal\u0131. Da\u011f\u0131tmal\u0131 ki \u00e7o\u011fals\u0131n. \u2028Kimi, neyi, nereyi sevdi\u011finiz \u00f6nemli de\u011fil yeterki \u00f6yle bir sevin ki g\u00f6z g\u00f6z\u00fc g\u00f6rmesin. \u00d6yle bir sevin ki etraf bahara d\u00f6ns\u00fcn. \u00d6yle bir sevin ki kimse yaln\u0131z kalmas\u0131n bu hayatta.\u2028Kimse k\u0131r\u0131lmas\u0131n, kimse \u00fcz\u00fclmesin. \u2028Sevgiye muhta\u00e7, hasret binlerce varl\u0131k varken etrafta, kimseden esirgemeyin u\u011fruna yarat\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z duyguyu. Hayk\u0131r\u0131n ta en i\u00e7ten seviyorum diye. Seviyorum bak, \u00f6yle seviyorum ki korksun t\u00fcm alem sevgimden, zira sevginin a\u015famayaca\u011f\u0131 yoktur bir engel.<\/p>\n
Rehber et bak 4 kelime, 4\u00fc de \u00f6mre bedel, \u00f6mre de\u011fer.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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