{"id":11765,"date":"2023-02-01T00:00:00","date_gmt":"2023-01-31T21:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/kadrandergi.com.tr\/?p=11765"},"modified":"2023-10-12T20:13:43","modified_gmt":"2023-10-12T20:13:43","slug":"her-sey-olmasi-gerektigi-gibi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.kadrandergi.com.tr\/?p=11765","title":{"rendered":"Her \u015eey Olmas\u0131 Gerekti\u011fi Gibi"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p> \u201cAllah Kahretsin\u201d c\u00fcmlesini hayat\u0131mdan \u00e7\u0131karal\u0131 \u00e7ok uzun zaman oldu san\u0131r\u0131m. Tak\u0131l\u0131p d\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcm m\u00fc? \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc o an d\u00fc\u015fmem gerekti\u011fi i\u00e7indir. Bir yerlere ge\u00e7 gitmemem ya da ge\u00e7 kalmam gerekiyordur, belki de o an ba\u015f\u0131mdan bir kaza defoluyordur. Hata m\u0131 yapt\u0131m? \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc o an hata yapmam gerekiyordur. O konuda eksi\u011fimdir ve kendime hatalar\u0131m ile olu\u015fan tecr\u00fcbelerden uzun, sonsuz parke ta\u015fl\u0131 yollar in\u015fa ediyorumdur. Bir \u015fey elimde tutamad\u0131\u011f\u0131m i\u00e7in k\u0131r\u0131ld\u0131 m\u0131? K\u0131r\u0131lmas\u0131 gerekiyordur. Nazar \u00e7\u0131km\u0131\u015ft\u0131r, evde fazlad\u0131r, enerjisi k\u00f6t\u00fcd\u00fcr&#8230; Bir insan m\u0131 gitti? Gitmesi gerekiyordur. Yeniden tutunmak i\u00e7in hayata sebeptir belki, b\u00fcy\u00fck konu\u015fmaman \u201cAsla onsuz ya\u015fayamam\u201d demelerine ilahi bir cevapt\u0131r, ayaklar\u0131n \u00fczerine basman i\u00e7in bir nedendir, Rabbimin \u201cBenden daha \u00e7ok kimseyi sevme, herkes gider ben kal\u0131r\u0131m\u201d dedi\u011fine i\u015farettir&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p> Favori c\u00fcmlem \u201cAllah Kahretsin\u201d de\u011fil art\u0131k. Onun yerine \u201cHer \u015fey olmas\u0131 gerekti\u011fi gibi\u201d diyorum ya\u015fad\u0131klar\u0131ma. Tam bir teslimiyet ve nitelikli bir kabulleni\u015f hali. Ahhh ne huzur. Huzur&#8230; \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc \u201cHer \u015fey olmas\u0131 gerekti\u011fi gibi\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p> Otob\u00fcslerin camlar\u0131n\u0131n olma sebebi bence insan\u0131n o uzun yolculukta d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmesi. Yeni kararlar almas\u0131, doyas\u0131ya K\u00e2inat\u0131n ressam\u0131n\u0131n eserlerini incelemesi ile ili\u015fkili. Yani otob\u00fcste her \u015fey olmas\u0131 gerekti\u011fi gibi. Tren yava\u015f yava\u015f t\u0131rmanmal\u0131 da\u011flara, vadilerden s\u00fcz\u00fclerek ge\u00e7meli ve uzun s\u00fcrmeli yolculuklar. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc insan sevdikleri ile bindi\u011fi trende ho\u015f\u00e7a vakit ge\u00e7irmeli, zaman durmu\u015f\u00e7as\u0131na. Orada her \u015fey olmas\u0131 gerekti\u011fi gibi. Kar ya\u011fmal\u0131 y\u00fckseklere ve t\u00fcm ihti\u015fam\u0131 ile kaplamal\u0131 t\u00fcm \u015fehri, topra\u011f\u0131n alt\u0131ndaki kardelenlerin m\u00fccadele ile do\u011fup g\u00fcne\u015fe kavu\u015fmas\u0131 i\u00e7in. Yani her \u015fey olmas\u0131 gerekti\u011fi gibi\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p> Suya s\u00f6ylenen s\u00f6zler kadar etkili bir c\u00fcmle, stresten uzak, sakin, manal\u0131\u2026 Evet her \u015fey olmas\u0131 gerekti\u011fi gibi&#8230; Her kap\u0131y\u0131 a\u00e7an o g\u00fczel c\u00fcmle hem dua hem temenni ve asla isyan de\u011fil.&nbsp; Bu c\u00fcmlenin enerjisi ile \u00e7evirili oldu\u011funu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnsene yol arkada\u015f\u0131m. Sabah i\u015fe gitmek i\u00e7in erkenden uyan\u0131yorsun ve \u201cHer \u015fey olmas\u0131 gerekti\u011fi gibi\u201d diyerek tam bir teslimiyet ile ba\u015fl\u0131yorsun g\u00fcne. Bu muazzam bir bilin\u00e7alt\u0131 d\u00fczeyinde telkin de\u011fil mi sence de? Peki hi\u00e7 mi isyanda oldu\u011fun, t\u00fckendi\u011fin an yok diyeceksin bana. Evet var i\u015fte i\u015fin s\u0131rr\u0131n\u0131 veriyorum sana. Onu da ilahi adalete b\u0131rak\u0131yorum. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc ben hakl\u0131 olup da haks\u0131zl\u0131k g\u00f6r\u00fcp, Allah\u2019a havale etti\u011fim hi\u00e7bir durumdan yenik \u00e7\u0131kmad\u0131m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p> Yeni bir yaz\u0131ya kadar sana \u00f6nerim tek bir c\u00fcmleyi hayat\u0131na yol etmen yol arkada\u015f\u0131m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; \u201cHER \u015eEY OLMASI GEREKT\u0130\u011e\u0130 G\u0130B\u0130\u201d<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u201cAllah Kahretsin\u201d c\u00fcmlesini hayat\u0131mdan \u00e7\u0131karal\u0131 \u00e7ok&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":118,"featured_media":12445,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[67],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kadrandergi.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11765"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kadrandergi.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kadrandergi.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kadrandergi.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/118"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kadrandergi.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=11765"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.kadrandergi.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11765\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":12446,"href":"https:\/\/www.kadrandergi.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11765\/revisions\/12446"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kadrandergi.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/12445"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kadrandergi.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=11765"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kadrandergi.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=11765"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kadrandergi.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=11765"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}